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Does Liking And Dating A Shemale Makes Me Gay?

If you are new in the world of dating transgenders and have mixed feelings about it, don’t worry, you are not the only one. The biggest question that every man faces when he gets attracted towards a shemale is – Am I gay? Well, the short answer to this is – No. However, the long answer is a bit more complicated.

The thing is, trans people have beautiful and appealing bodies. They are sexy and thus are capable of attracting any sex-hungry man towards them. If you are feeling the same, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you.

A number of men who date shemales prefer keeping it a secret. This is the reason why the society doesn’t know exactly how many men are attracted towards transgenders. This feeling of insecurity makes men believe that the society will think they are gay, and thus they themselves start believing they are gay.

Sexual freedom in 2020

Fortunately, a lot has changed over the past few decades, especially when we discuss topics related to sex and sexuality. Several myths concerning sexual relations have been cleared and taboos are broken. However, still men in our society are affected with what society might think if they start dating transgenders openly.

They are worried thinking what if they will be referred as ‘gay’. Nevertheless, this doesn’t stop them from dating and having sexual relations with shemales. In simple words, what they don’t have is sexual freedom to follow and do what they want to openly.

Also, media doesn’t represent shemales positively. The community of transgenders is consistently scrutinized and criticized by the society, without any specific reason. These reasons alone are enough to stop men from dating shemales publically. They think they have to be extra-cautious, and sometimes out of fear they altogether refrain from dating transgenders.

Then again, the fear of this social stigma doesn’t obstruct the progress of transgender escorts. Their market is growing and flourishing, and with time their fan base is increasing. This clears one thing – there are men who give more importance to their own needs, rather than focusing on what society might think. Now, these men are certainly not gay, but in simple words they are just brave enough to follow their hearts.

What’s the final answer then?

Well, honestly, there is no conclusive answer to this question. Nevertheless, one thing can be concluded for sure and that is – there are plenty of heterosexual men in our society and they are attracted to shemales. Now, does this makes them gay? Well, it solely depends on themselves and not the society.

Whom an individual like and prefers dating is a personal decision, and society doesn’t have a say in it. For now, all we can say is the transgender community will have to wait a little longer to finally get men who won’t be ashamed of expressing their interest for them. Men who wouldn’t bother when they will be termed as gay, and will proudly admit to their sexual preference above all.

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